Wednesday, January 28, 2009

SNL Skit...Beyonce and Justin Tmberlake

Ok so this skit is HILARIOUS! Please watch it...I seriously laughed out loud when I did!

Beyonce and Justin Timberlake SNL Skit (11/15/08)

Raphael Saadiq in Portland

Oh Mah Gawd!!

Raphael Saadiq
is going to be in Portland on March 6th at the Wonder Ballroom!!

The show starts at 9 pm.
If you haven't heard of this man, he's just released what I consider the best album of now you know how I voted in my own poll, lol.

The pre-order for the tickets starts at 10 am this Friday the 30th (password: VERIZON)
and the general sales starts the next day (Sat 31st) at 10 am.

For more info on this show, go to

I'm gonna post some of his music so those of you who haven't heard him can see what all the fuss is about! His latest album "The Way I See It" is a 1960's themed it sounds like it's strait up outa the 60's...better than Amy Whinehouse's attempts lol.

LISTEN TO HIM AND GO TO HIS SHOW!!! (I'll be there!)

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Poll Results

So the poll has officially closed and the results are in!

The Best Comedy of 2008 is (drum roll please...):

starring Mos Def and Jack Black

If you haven't seen this movie, get your booty to Blockbuster and rent it! It's great :)

Monday, January 26, 2009


Ok so I gotta get this out...

Does it ever seem like some people exist just to try n make you feel bad about yourself? Like their only purpose on this earth is to bring you down in some way cuz there couldn't possibly be any other explanation for the fact that they even breathe the same air as you? If people like this really exist, I'm pretty sure I ran into one this weekend lol...

Now, I'm not tryna be mean or bitter or fact, I'm writing this so I don't turn bitter! So this person that I know (we'll call this person Angela...since I hate Angela's character on The Office) has gotten so far under my skin that just the mention of her name pisses me off. And you know wut? I don't even know how we got this way! All I know is one day, she started really making me feel bad about myself. And how fucked up is that? So, naturally, I cut her off.

BUT....even when I run into her, it's like she's got some kind of jedi mind shit goin, cuz sure enough, I start developing trillions of insecurities...and stupid ones too! Like "I'm I suck", or "There's dishes in my I suck", or "I'm I suck" lol...

SEE??? These are the dumbest most littlest most stupidest insecurities that I have managed to give this person complete control over!

Oh and that's not all about Angela...(btw, to my real cousin Angela, this is not you lol...jus in case u read this one) This b*tch (yes, I kno I don't use that word, but this is my one exception) is the biggest shit talker I know! So I guess that's another reason I let her get to me...poo literally flies out her mouth when she forms words, thats how much shit she talks lol.

I mean why do people like this even exist? And they somehow manage to turn others against you...which is even worse! But i guess anyone who gets turned by a shit-talker ain't worth the dust behind ur fridge neway lol...(like that analogy? I made it up lol. Cuz who thinks about the dust behind their fridge?)

Ok so I guess my point to all this is FUCK THE ANGELAs OF THE WORLD!! And if you've got an Angela in your life, DO SHARE in the comments section cuz I'd love to hear about her/him!
If you don't have one, more power to ya!

Meanwhile, I'll be remembering that nobody is worth me feeling bad about fact, I'll remember that all the dumbest most littlest most stupidest insecurities are just that!

Nobody's perfect,
everybody has dishes in their sink,
EVERYBODY's broke right now (damn economy),
and everybody gets moody sumtime...................

Now go clean that damn dust from behind your fridge!

Mr. Dekker

I don't usually make posts about my personal life outside of social issues or activism or nething (since this is suppose to be an activism blog...but I think that's gonna change soon) but I wanted to honor the fact that Mr. Dekker and I have just celebrated our third year anniversary! And I want to say that the last 3 years have been the BEST years of my life...I am so in love and so excited to spend the rest of my life with this man!

Many of you have probly heard me say "Damn! I can't wait to graduate! Ugh!"

Yeah, well that's cuz once I finally graduate, I can leave Corvalley and join Mr. Dekker up north! It sux living apart :( But newho, I just wanted to celebrate our three years wit this post!

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Weekly Polls

Hey peeps,

I'm gonna be taking polls weekly just for the hell of it :) So, as you'll see to the right, I've added a question for you to the end of 7 days, I'll post the results! HOW FUN IS THIS?!

So yeah, you should participate cuz it's fureal...participate lol...

K thanks! Have fun!

Top 25 Bushisms

Ok, so not to take the spotlight off of Obama today, but I HAVE to share these quotes with you all!
President Bush ACTUALLY let these statements come outa his mouth lol
(the last one is the worst!):

1. "Our enemies are innovative and resourceful, and so are we. They never stop thinking about new ways to harm our country and our people, and neither do we."—Washington, D.C., Aug. 5, 2004

2. "I know how hard it is for you to put food on your family."—Greater Nashua, N.H., Chamber of Commerce, Jan. 27, 2000

3. "Rarely is the question asked: Is our children learning?"—Florence, S.C., Jan. 11, 2000

4. "Too many good docs are getting out of the business. Too many OB/GYNs aren't able to practice their love with women all across the country."—Poplar Bluff, Mo., Sept. 6, 2004

5. "Neither in French nor in English nor in Mexican."—declining to answer reporters' questions at the Summit of the Americas, Quebec City, Canada, April 21, 2001

6. "You teach a child to read, and he or her will be able to pass a literacy test.''—Townsend, Tenn., Feb. 21, 2001

7. "I'm the decider, and I decide what is best. And what's best is for Don Rumsfeld to remain as the secretary of defense."—Washington, D.C., April 18, 2006

8. "See, in my line of work you got to keep repeating things over and over and over again for the truth to sink in, to kind of catapult the propaganda."—Greece, N.Y., May 24, 2005

9. "I've heard he's been called Bush's poodle. He's bigger than that."—discussing former British Prime Minister Tony Blair, as quoted by the Sun newspaper, June 27, 2007

10. "And so, General, I want to thank you for your service. And I appreciate the fact that you really snatched defeat out of the jaws of those who are trying to defeat us in Iraq."—meeting with Army Gen. Ray Odierno, Washington, D.C., March 3, 2008

11. "We ought to make the pie higher."—South Carolina Republican debate, Feb. 15, 2000

12. "There's an old saying in Tennessee—I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee—that says, fool me once, shame on—shame on you. Fool me—you can't get fooled again."—Nashville,Tenn., Sept. 17, 2002

13. "And there is distrust in Washington. I am surprised, frankly, at the amount of distrust that exists in this town. And I'm sorry it's the case, and I'll work hard to try to elevate it."—speaking on National Public Radio, Jan. 29, 2007

14. "We'll let our friends be the peacekeepers and the great country called America will be the pacemakers."—Houston, Sept. 6, 2000

15. "It's important for us to explain to our nation that life is important. It's not only life of babies, but it's life of children living in, you know, the dark dungeons of the Internet."—Arlington Heights, Ill., Oct. 24, 2000

16. "One of the great things about books is sometimes there are some fantastic pictures."—U.S. News & World Report, Jan. 3, 2000

17. "People say, 'How can I help on this war against terror? How can I fight evil?' You can do so by mentoring a child; by going into a shut-in's house and say I love you."—Washington, D.C., Sept. 19, 2002

18. "Well, I think if you say you're going to do something and don't do it, that's trustworthiness."—CNN online chat, Aug. 30, 2000

19. "I'm looking forward to a good night's sleep on the soil of a friend."—on the prospect of visiting Denmark, Washington, D.C., June 29, 2005

20. "I think it's really important for this great state of baseball to reach out to people of all walks of life to make sure that the sport is inclusive. The best way to do it is to convince little kids how to—the beauty of playing baseball."—Washington, D.C., Feb. 13, 2006

21. "Families is where our nation finds hope, where wings take dream."—LaCrosse, Wis., Oct. 18, 2000

22. "You know, when I campaigned here in 2000, I said, I want to be a war president. No president wants to be a war president, but I am one."—Des Moines, Iowa, Oct. 26, 2006

23. "There's a huge trust. I see it all the time when people come up to me and say, 'I don't want you to let me down again.' "—Boston, Oct. 3, 2000

24. "They misunderestimated me."—Bentonville, Ark., Nov. 6, 2000

25. "I'll be long gone before some smart person ever figures out what happened inside this Oval Office."—Washington, D.C., May 12, 2008

"When you oppress people, they rise up in a FIERY ANGER!!!!" -Dale from Step Brothers 2008
(This is my favorite quote in the whole movie!!)

Inauguration Day 2009

It's finally happened...Barack Hussein Obama is my president! For the first time in my life, I feel like I can claim the U.S. president as my own...I am proud to be an American citizen today.

As you all know from my earlier ranting, I'm broke lol....that means I don't have cable (or any TV stations except OPB...and who wants to watch that everyday
all day?). So, I missed most of the televised celebration today. I was in class at 8 am this morning and got to see the very end of Obama's speech, the poet, and the Benediction (which I ended up crying during lol)...

I felt so proud today! And I'm excited to watch this man grow as a leader and encourage real change in this society! I don't really know what else to say other than I am so so so so happy that


Out with the old


Friday, January 16, 2009


YAY!!! I've reached the Big 10!
I have 10 followers! (I know it's lame, but I'm really excited about this lol)

Ok, thats all :)

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Update on Stripper Mom

Ok so here is a video of "Stripper Mom" trying to justify her previous video! I got this, again, from Happy Nappy Head
(an amazing blog that you should all follow).

I dunno how I feel about this response. She claims that she's a pole dance instructor and in no way teaching her child to be a stripper...hmmm....raise your hand if you believe that one! (there should be no hands raised at this time). I mean, if she's not teachin' the girl, then why have her anywhere near the pole or even mimicking her moves? I understand that mothers should teach their children about sexuality, but honestly, steering them in the direction of erotic dancing or anything of the sort when they could be social activists or doctors or anything else in the world...i dunno...seems kinda fishy to me! I will say that the woman clearly understands the implications of her video.
Well, I'll let you come to your own conclusions about it by giving you the response video!
I give you, Stripping 101 for Toddlers: The Backlash:

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Is this what mothering has become?

So I found this video on a blog I follow called Happy Nappy Head
(an amazing blog, btw).
I just want to say that it breaks my heart to know that there are mothers who believe that sexualizing their toddler and adolescent children is good parenting. In fact, I have a family member who, over Christmas, thought it exciting that her 2-year old daughter could execute the new Chris Brown "coochie pop" while straddling the floor. I was mortified, to say the least. And you know, this isn't new to me! But it never stops being depressing when I see it.

So, ladies and gentlemen, I give you....Stripping 101 for Toddlers (that's what I'm calling it)

PLEASE comment on this...I really want feedback!

Monday, January 12, 2009

Back On the Blogging Grind


Sorry about the month long got kinda hectic what with Christmas and New Years and all...

But I'M BACK AND IN ACTION! (corny, I know)

So, how many people here hate money? (raise your hand)
I HATE MONEY! In fact, it's gotta be one of the most depressing aspects of life to makes me sad, it makes me mad, it makes me feel like I can conquer the world when I have enough of it (which I never do). I can honestly say that me and Money have a love/hate relationship like no other.
I swear, I think banks are literally God's (or Goddess') way of saying "Aha! That's what you get! I'm gonna hold your money and charge you $35 when you go over your available balance by even one cent!" I hate banks! In fact, I'm gonna switch to a credit union!!
**breathe...just breathe**
Yes, I'm bitter...and broke, lol.

So I have a funny video to share from SNL! Has nothing to do with anything but it's funny so WATCH IT :)

P.S. I think I might name my child Freba after watching this thing lol